Today I want us to craft a plan for you for AFTER this Course is over.

I do want to create an ongoing Course for “Aftercare” and “Maintenance” someday, that will span a full year, but it will take me a while to get that all done. So for right now, let’s just create a game plan for you for when this “The Other Side of the Bottle” Course is done.

The Over and the Under

The “over and the under” is a concept I like to demonstrate to people because most people set up “policing” for themselves, post-40-days. They have sponsors, accountability partners, random alcohol tests, etc. But all those are coming from a “policing” point of view, which I call the “Under”.

I guarantee you will do better (and be happier) being alcohol-free if you immediately start helping people – which is what I call the “Over.”

Don’t wait till you have more time under your belt. Start now. If you are two days ahead of someone else, you can certainly reach back and help someone else get to where you are. You can even help people who have more time than you. Don’t get hung up on “contiguous sobriety time” because all of us ONLY HAVE TODAY. That’s it, and that’s the truth. We only have today.

So do not get hung up on sober-time.

Tying Up Loose Ends

Let’s also discuss other things that should be done asap – such as cleaning up your finances, cleaning up relationship wreckage, apologizing with words/letters where you need to (but apologizing silently by way of living rightly is more important). Tie up loose ends quickly – they only become tangled if you don’t do something about them… Basically, you need to get into the business of “cleaning up.” That’s what we’re going to discuss today.

So let’s get started… (Watch the Video)

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